if he is not ready to have a baby at the moment, all you can do is try and get on with things. it's a fantastic journey when you both are ready and decide together to have a bub. however in saying that, i am sure there are many people out there that are not ready and still have a bub and are more than happy and thrilled to become parents.

it sounds like you really love each other though so wait until you get through it and perhaps look at trying again down the track. hugs to you xxx