I would definitely find another doc. If you are on the sunshine coast I can recommend a wonderful OB :-)
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Take as much time as you need to recover from this loss. Cry cry and then cry some more. Tell your "friends" to go jump. Thats not supportive behaviour. Friends like that who needs enemies!!! At least you will have friends here to be supportive and know exactly what you are going through. Big hugs to you my friend. Take care.