Oh sweetheart a big to you. I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy Freddy.
Please don't bottle it all up. You don't need to be strong for anyone right now sweetie - you need time to greive. Bellybelly is a great place for you to come to talk to and get support from others who have experienced the loss of their bub. You will find your own special way of honouring Freddy too which will help you during this time.
Please take care
I am so relieved that yu have so much loving support around you - that helps the healing - a healing that will take time.
I found for me - and we are all different but I will share & take it on if it fits and if it doesn't let it go... I found for me that I made a decision that I would not allow my babies to be remembered with sorrow. I wanted their short lives to mean something. So I chose to go about learning the lessons that each of my Goodbye Babies taught me. I am still learning those lessons. I remember when I birthed my angel son - during that labour I laughed, I cried, I smiled, I wailed. But he taught me strength. He gave me the gift of knowing I could feel the most unimaginable (for me) pain & still live. He also gave me my intuition - or at least awakened it.
So, maybe you can find some pearl - a gift. Maybe the gift that Freddy bestowed on his parents is the deep knowing of your love. A truly precious gift...
I hope you stay with us in here & let us share your journey - you can join the Trying to Conceive After Late Loss/Stillbirth/Recurrent miscarriage thread - there are women sadly that have gone through similar to you who will welcome you with open arms. You will find the thread HERE As you are new to the site you will find it helpful to have a read of our forum guidelines. You will find them HERE
Special hugs - beautiful strong Mama that you are,..
Hi,
I'm very sorry for the loss of your precious son. I wish there were words I could say to take away your pain but nothing could make you feel better right now. Just take day by day and let yourself grieve. I'm glad you have great support in your partner. Your precious Freddy will always be close to your heart.
Oh, I'm so so sorry for your loss.
Sweety, you feel like you've lost a child because you have lost a child. You deserve time to grieve, the opportunity to talk about him, about your plans for him and for your family. Please don't feel like you can't share those very important things and need to be brave and strong. Just by getting through what you have already your bravery and strength are beyond my understanding...
I'm so pleased that you are able to recognise the gift Freddy was to you and your DH. How special for you both to have that to hold on to.
I really hope you find the support you need on here, and in your family.
Take care of you.
I'm so sorry you're precious son has passed away May you find some comfort in walking this difficult journey with the women on these boards who have experienced the loss of their little ones also.
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to you. I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy Freddy.
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