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  1. #1

    Nov 2007
    Earth
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    Kristy Lee,

    Some hugs for you :hugs:, and sympathy too

  2. #2
    kristy lee Guest

    sorry for such a late response, i havent had any internet access at all but i have solved the problem now.

    it has now been 55 days to the day which i heard the terrible news. i have been trying to be really strong and try and get back into my every day things to keep my mind off it all, no it doesnt help. i really do think something like this stays with you for ever, no matter how long in the pregnancy you were.
    since all this it has made me realise i do actually want a baby and a family along with it.
    i had my first normal period 3 weeks after everything my procedure and i was due to get my period again 3 days again but nothing, no period pains or nothing. it is really playing mind games with me because im thinking could my period just be late still because of everything thats happened or could i possibly be pregnant again??? i am really scared to take a test because im scared to be let down as now it would mean the world to me if i fall pregnant and have a healthy baby. i am just scared to get my hopes up only to be let down and shattered again.
    i have read on some information on the net that if you take a pregnancy test it can still show negative if you are in your first 2 weeks of pregnancy??
    its all just really playing with my mind and confusing me so much and it is all scaring me too.
    thanks everyone, all the comments do really help and do mean so much to me.

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Nov 2006
    Milton Keynes ( England )
    207

    Hi Kirsty lee

    i am so sorry for the loss of you rlittle angel i hope that as time goes on the pain and the griefe will ease for you i totally understand what you mean about doing a test i was 9 days late yesterday and was gonna do a test this morning but my af arrived i was so devistated i had my hopes up so much i just couldnt stop crying i thought 9 days was a long time to be late thats why i really thought i was i have been trying for 14 months now and nothing every month i think is this the month and the dissapointment that comes with not being [pregnant is awful but i have my fingers crossed for you that you get a BFP and a lovely sticky bub let us no how you get on also if you head is all over the place then do a test or wait a few more days.

    Munchy xxx

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