Thanks heaps MissyMooMoo for such a sweet and caring reply

i was a little worried that maybe i might of been over reacting to this and being alittle to sensitive about it but i am happy that you see it my way as well. it really broke my heart last night when she said that and i could see it broke dp heart as well. havent we been through enough? and now we have to deal with people and comments like that??

dp said that if she rings again he is going to be telling her exactly what he thinks and how wrong it was. dp has been through so much in the last few weeks and he has truely been my rock and i feel so sorry for him that his family hasnt been very supportive about this at all. it was my mum that gave him comfort when i was in surgery and he broke down knowing what they were doing to me. Its been my mum that has come and cleaned the house so he didnt have to do it. his family couldnt even ring just to see how he was going. this was his first child and he has never experienced a loss before and he has cried just as many tears as me. I just feel sorry for him and i really wish i could of given him this baby