The OT got me onto boardmakers and I have one for the day which I try to do in the mornings. I'll put up the general rhythm of the day for her. And on the calender I put events like swimming, C work for the days I work etc etc so she can sort of plan ahead iykwim?

ETA girls we are back in hospital atm. Matilda had a UTI and a febrile convulsion. They did an ultrasound which showed something abnormal, but I'm waiting for the urologist to tell me how scary before I totally freak out... can't sleep though.