I am the same as you, Christy. I want to leave a 3 year gap. I just don't think I would cope being pregnant and dealing with Gabby at the same time.
I have a friend who has an 11 month old and she is due to have her second baby in February. She is really struggling atm because her daughter is teething and has decided to stop sleeping through the night. I just don't think I could go through that just yet.
I also joke and say that I need a few bourbons between kids