This question I guess is inherently imbedded in the gap question.. what about diapers? Is the load that much more with 2 in diapers? (I know cloth and disposable would be different.. cloth would be work load, and disposable would be more financial cost). How does this compare, having 2 in diapers, compared to one? Worth waiting for toilet training? Experiences?

ETA: I guess I could ask the same on breastfeeding.. but thats another whole thread in itself.. lol