There is a 2 year gap between my eldest two children and a 8 year gap until i had my third. It wasnt through lack of trying though. I find it great.


The elder two love their little sister and are great helpers. I have found Pheonix is learning very quickly from watching them also.

From a parents pont of view though a long gap is a HUGE shock to the system. No more sleeping in for one lol. But overall its been ok.