hi kelly

i had only 21mths between my first two and then 4 1/2 yrs between jay and lani

i found benefits and disadvantages in both age gaps, my biggest problem is the tiredness (but i am nearly 37 lol) i must admit when i was prg with lani i felt omg why am i doing this all over again - my life was going to be nappy and baby free lol, but of course i wouldn't change it for the world.

another slight disadvantage is that most of my friends (whom i met when my first dd was a baby) have mostly finished having their families and most of the last lot of kiddies are off to kinder or school next year so they have alot of free time and grown up time - whereas i have to drag lani around everywhere, but they don't mind and they understand.

i also found that i felt like a new mum again but with more experience iywim and i found that jay is so good with her and he helps so much and understands the time that babies take up.

good luck in what you decide