That actually brought tears to my eyes because I have been struggling with how my feelings have changed for DS. I still love him but my feelings are more of guilt that my time and attention have been taken away from him. That woman has summed up exactly how I have been feeling. My baby boy is not my baby anymore yet I long for him to be so. I had thought about posting about it but held off because I thought it would pass. I have explained it to friends and family and they all say that it will pass as DD gets older and feeds less frequently. It still doesn't stop me feeling so guilty and these feelings are actually preventing me from having a third baby even though our plan was to have three. I don't think I could go through the guilt for two older babies when a third comes along.