I understand the guilt but let's balance it up with the gains too!
Good point. I guess at the moment it's hard because I can't imagine the gains, can't imagine how I will love another baby this much too. So I'm left being scared of the guilt! I guess I will find out one day what it's like and I shouldn't worry too much, but it's hard not too! And I feel bad for the second baby because maybe I won't be as happy and excited as I was when having DD bc I will also be worried about it.

OP-I hope DD will still be BF! That's another thing I worry about as you know. I don't want pregnancy to make her stop BF as it does with lots of babies coz then it feels like I'm already putting the new baby ahead of her iykwim. But she is booby crazy! So if anyone was not going to wean during pg it would be her! lol.