i thought my DD1 had grown enormously when i saw her after having DD2, i think its because we spend so long transfixed on this tiny little baby that when we see our other kids its like wow! u really are big hey?

my feelings towards DD1 didnt change in the slightest, i actually started to appreciate her more because i never realised all the things she could do for herself, yes she still wants my undivided attention, yes she still needs me to do things for her, but it wasnt nearly as bad as ithought it was going to be.

I went through the same, how is it even possible for me to lve another child the same way i love my first. let me tell u, u can, i never though it would be possible but it certainly is, i loved her before she was born but the second i laid eyes on her, that was it! i was head over heels in love with her. and nothings changed since, only more love in this house.

It is scary, but definetly doable hun, if DF would let me, i'd have 10 kids because the kind of love that kids give u and that u have ur kids is sooooo extrodinary