Oh yay for you Carmen! Things seem like they are going well, its lovely to hear you and DH working together. It can be sooooo hard after the new baby comes but when you come out the other side, and you both put in the effort not to argue (I am a door slammer myself!) - your relationship will be stronger for it. Well done to you!

Don't worry about tiring us all out - thats what this place is all about, I'm always biatching about one thing or another......