Cricket, I think you have made a point here. For whatever things DH and I argue about, I should not let it ruin our 4 years of marriage. TBH, DH is a really good guy with many good qualities but some times, like you mentioned, they just don't see when we really need the help.

I would definitely take you as an example... choose a moment when I am not tense to speak to him what I woud like of him instead of blabbling it out when we are arguing. This will most likely lessen our arguments.

Motherhood is a huge challenge with many rewards, and I will never forget the joy of the whole course. And because of that, I have made myself a promise (I will not dwell on getting angry over little things because I have such a huge reward in front of me... instead I should look at the happy things and be merry so that DD and I will be joyful at the same time instead of poor DD having to look at me with a sour face)!

THank you for being for understanding and supportive. If I feel like I need some more, I will shout here to all you girls!