I have so little control over whether they have happy lives! My poor little babies are going to go to school one day and I can't make people like them!

That is the hardest thikng I have faced as a mum.. when your son comes home and says he is sad cus no one likes him and starts crying.. by the way when they come home saying that check with his teachers.. Ethan was fine he just had one bad day and apparently is popular at school but this mummy cried herself to sleep that night..

and as for treating your children equeally... you won't.. you treat them differently.

I am not bery good at putting things into words but I do know where you are coming from.. Basically we just sit back and relax and deal with the situation as needed not the child kwim??

Enjoy this crazy ride of more then one child