I've put it out there in the past - before her DS was born - and she just said that she was happy to talk to her Pead about it (who she sees regularly as her DD also has physical health issues). If I can find the right moment in the conversation, I will try and check in with her about it again though. I'm 'in the field' WRT my work so she knows I can easily link her in with someone... it just means that I need to be extra mindful that she doesn't feel that I'm bringing my profession into our friendship and my perspective of her DD. I do agree that it might be worth trying again though.