with the first I remember telling my partner if it wasn't for him i wouldn't be there.

He missed the second cause he was born at 6:00 in morning 125kms away. i had to convince the midwife tho who wouldn't listen that i was actually having him(was already in hospital). in the end i just pushed and he came out she pooped herself.

with the 3rd i told my partner over a hundred times to shut up even if he looked at me he was told to shut up. didn't really want him near me just the midwife she new what i wanted he sat there peeping over the top of a mag not game to talk.