ahh the dredded over bearing visitors...


Hun when i had Millana i made it known to everyone they were not to come in til they were gieven the ok.. told them it could be a couple of hrs or even a day or two til i was ready..

one rule i made sure people knew was that NO ONE was to meet Millana before she had been introduced to Teleah and Annika. I felt it was so important that they got to meet there new sister first.

so its def not rude so say look, no visitors till i ask.. def speak to the nurses on at the hospital.. i ended having to DOB on my roommates family because there was like 12 or so at a time!! and that was during rest hrs when there wasnt meant to be any visitors.... they werent please but who cares.. the midwifes gave them all a good talking to about respect for other patients LOL so they will back you up 100%..