I am a D and a tad on the E side.

It is my body and my choice at the end of the day - however if DH had some sort of input that would make him more confortable then I would also consider what he had to say

I asked DH and he said he would answer D too - he knows where he stands on the issue, my body my choice. Plus I have had a child before (previous relationship) and this is his first.