With DS1 there was no choice for either myself or XH. It was emergency c/s in hospital nearly under GA. Neither of us were given any option.

With DS2 I opted to try for a VBAC. I had an awesome doula who was marvellous support. However XH only came to one antenatal visit - the one where he took me to hospital at 41w suffering from (managed) pre-eclampsia. We were given options - either have a c/s the next day, or wait another week and see what happens, with a probable c/s at the end of that week. XH didn't even consult me. He said we were having the c/s the next day because it was more convenient for him.

Just one of the reasons he's the XH now.

If I have any more children, I would like to believe that both my partner/husband and myself would make decisions jointly, but with respect for each partner's views and wishes. So more a c) but leaning towards a d) because I'm good at convincing people that they want what I want...