I'm somewhere between D and E in my beliefs. I guess I married my husband because he's someone whose opinion I value so I would always take it into consideration. I think he would vote D, but perhaps C because he thinks he "should" to show he's interested and involved. Truthfully though he always believed it was my decision and he said he trusted me and my knowledge of birth options to choose the best choice.

When it came to making the decision I used him as a sounding board but I didn't make the best choice first time around (talked myself out of a home birth and went to a birth centre). Second time around I started to do the same thing and he stepped up a bit more that time and talked me into the home birth (well, mainly he told me I needed to take money out of the equation and choose the option I most wanted).