First time being pregnant and having my DD, I did it all alone so everything was my decision and I know I can do it all without support. I am finding it really difficult to 'share the journey' this time, especially as everything went so well last time, kinda feels like I know what will work for me and what won't. My default is E, simply because of my experience last time but I am trying very hard to be at least a D.

I know my partner would be happy with E. I guess because I do have experience and he doesn't, he trusts my judgement about it more. I wouldn't make decisions without at least discussing it with him and explaining why I wanted to do whatever it was I wanted to do. So far he has understood my thoughts, concerns and agreed with my choices so it is working out for us.