Hi everyone and thanks again for your support. I spoke to DH again this morning as he keeps avoiding the issue and won't give me agreement on another name and he admitted that he didn't want to change the name but will allow me to 'do what I have to do' although he won't be happy (ie I will be the one making the decision and I guess will have to bare full responsibility for any ramifications). DH says it's because we have already told everybody his name and now we're changing it, and I just know that he is afraid to stand up to his parents about it, after all had he done that in the first place we wouldn't be in this situation. So I'm alone in this however everyone has been assuming that DH was also victimised by the inlaws - he wasn't he told them that it was me who didn't want to name after FIL. So now I'm faced with the difficulty of putting myself first (ie because DH won't be happy about it), or giving it more time in the hope that time will heal the wounds although somehow I don't think it's possible as I feel that I've been robbed of too much and the resentment escalates with each day especially knowing that it has contributed so much to my current condition. It is so difficult not knowing which way to go. I would be happy never to see the inlaws again however my problem is that I don't have DH's support either and that really makes me wonder what's in store.

Our son is an angel and now, at 2 months old, coo's and sleeps through the night which is a real bonus.