who the heel do they think they are????? Not much wonder you are depressed having to put up with people like this in your life. Try to take srtrength from your wonderful baby boy, just think, it's up to you to protect him from these selfish bullys, let that give you the strenth to stand uo to them. Do you have anyone who could stand up to them for you, your husband obciously doesn't have the guts to do it, sorry i know thats cruel but sometimes you have to be a man and stand up to people especially when you are a father, what about your parents, a sibling or a friend, hell give me their number and i'll do it, someone needs to open their eyes as to what they are doing and the fact that they have no right whatsoever to have any say in anything to do with their Grandson. Perhaps of someone else pointed out the error of their ways they may listen to them.
I would also take steps to protect yourself, people like this are capable of anything and if they realise how fragile you are may try to use it to their advantage, tell everything to your GP or someone in authority who you trust, explain how it is making you feel and don;t be afraid to let it all out, get as much help and support as you can and keep a diary of everything, everything that happens, everything you feel, all the wonderful things about your son and all the crap which is stealing the enjoyment from what should be a wonderful time.
I hope things can work out for you and your husband, but i have a feeling that won't happen until he can cut the apron strings and stand up to his parents, if he wont then you are going to have to be strong enought to be Mum and Dad to your little boy whilst trying to keep him as far away from their evil as possible.
Why do there have to be so many nasty and selfish people in the world
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