First of all Charaz...Congratulations on the birth of your baby boy!!

I also agree with Lulu, (and everyone else) what could be next?? Don't let her undermine you as a mother and especially as a couple.

They don't have to like the name/s you choose.. But they should respect it.

I would fill out that form with the name you have chosen, mail it off and when you get your sons beautiful birth certificate with his name on it, I would proudly display it for ALL to see. Politely tell them you are this child's mother, you conceived him, nourished him and brought him into this world and therefor you choose his name and they must respect it.

huge hugs to you....

Nic