My SIL is in labour today... first bub one week early. Is it selfish to be sad and happy at the same time. I am ecstatically happy for them, they live in Canada so we are sad we won't get to see bub for a few months too and share this time with them, but I went through all the grief of not birthing my babies again this morning when they called to say she is 9cms. Going to be a tough day I think with many mixed feelings.