I wouldn't be able to recommend any specifics, however, I'm sure there is a birth support network that can suggest people who specialise in that area. Hmm... there's a disappointing births debrief section on here I believe, perhaps someone there could suggest someone, or a network to contact. Otherwise I'd be consulting with your GP to refer you to someone appropriate. Alternatively, an Ob might know of someone you could talk to?

Good luck chicky! The kids are worth all the heartache aren't they.