Thanks Miss H, your comment is appreciated. I definately feel a little better from the bits of good advice most of you have given me, and will certainly look into your suggestions. Thanks also to those of you who support personal wishes and decisions. Pregnancy is a major event as Im sure you all agree, and I think support, advice, and understanding is an enormous component to having a good pregnancy : )

good for you Meringue

the outcome is the most important thing...a healthy baby and healthy mum is all that matters

birthing is a very small part of the journey, & what comes after it is all that matters.