Why should we have to justify c/s for our babies?
You don't. I don't think anyone has insinuated that people who have a c/s need to justify it. Or that anyone should feel bad about needing or having a c/s. Overwhelmingly the posts in this thread are respectful of the fact that for some people, unnecessareans are upsetting, and for others, cesareans are a valid birth choice - each to their own, respect for informed birth choices, yadayada.

.. Hasn't it?

BTW thanks to all the contributers to this thread, I for one have found it very thought provoking and interesting. And I've been inspired to post my positive c/s birth story, so hopefully I get some time to sit down and write it.