No-one has to justify themselves to anyone. They FEEL they have to justify themselves because they think they are being made out to be inadequate or whaever. I think everyone in this discussion (apart from the odd outburst from randoms) has been respectful and its been a very interesting discussion, which we've all learnt something from.
Honestly I dont have a problem the way I birthed as I tried my best and unfortunately it wasnt to be. I agree it has been respectful in the most part, some posts of been a bit one sided, bot mostly all good its been interesting.