We are still having the arguments and now it has turned violent. DS1 now throws everything, hits his brother and tonight has hit DF but said he didn't mean it. Now DF and DS have a problem anyway as they have nothing in common. DS is very active and DF is a computer nerd. I am not sure what to do now. Do I make him live with his dad and stepmum?? Any one have any ideas on what to do cause we have run out of tactics