I know all the kids arre effected by the other things that have been happening etc. And he's never had it easy, none of them have and its not going to get easier any time soon, even when we get back to NZ in April, they will then have a big move to adjust to, new school and their daddy not being around.

Im really hoping to get a breakthrough with him before we come back. I guess I'm scared of him being out of control when I'm solo parenting