Thanks ladies.
On this weeks star chart we have put "daily routine" on. Had a talk with both boys about - things everybody in the whole world have to do. Ie get up, get dressed, go to school/ work, have a shower, go to sleep etc.
Hope it helps.

His schooling is really going downhill in general. As in apparently he's the worst in his class. He's not dumb just lazy and doesn't pay attention. -its not going to help anyway.

I had thought about getting tested for adhd as I have it. But he seemed to get better. But now he is worse again.
My hubby thinks Im clutching at straws.