Hi, Thanks Elyse84 for your thoughts. We did ring and asked the daycare several times to find out what happend to her on that day/night . We even called from the hosptial as they needed to treat DD for her injuries. They kept asking me if she passed out ect in the end I rang the daycare center and relayed questions. I didnt stay when I collected her to ask questions as I saw her injuries and rushed her to the ER. The specalists that were treating her called the centre twice, once was the head ER Doctor asking specific questions, he came back into the room and said he got no answer. The second doctor took my phone and rang again this time she got another carer that said a differnt story. The doctors were so angry as they said the injuries were equalivant of a car accident and didnt understand how no one saw or could tell them what happened to her. After a few weeks I did talk to the director about it and said that to her that no one can tell me what happened to DD and how she sustained her injuries. She then emailed me and told me possible causes of her injuries, ie she fell off the fort, someone pushed her. This made me mad as again it was "we didnt see it". She did admit that no one saw it just noticed DD heading towards them acting funny. I aslo asked her why an ambulance was not called at all she told me that they all misjudged her injury.
In the end I know that they have changed their policy on head injuries and what to do. But in the end it was DH and myself having to deal with their mistake with DD being in hosptial and constant care and the after math of it all.
DD is great now but still not out of the woods yet
K