She misses her friends at the daycare but its strange that not one of her friends parents have bothered to call. We think they have been told not to call by the center, which bothers me alot. Mind you if this happend to one of DD friends I would be calling and supporting that parent through it. We have been left out in the cold by these parents whom I feel are afraid to be those friends/parents in fear that they will lose their place in the daycare. DH is more upset about the lack of support and friendship from those parents and friends of DD daycare mates than I am but its sad as we all went to the parks, bbqs and birthday parties together then nothing.
Do you think the other parents even have any idea as to what happened? I would think the daycare centre probably hasn't said anything to any of them (it's not the sort of thing that would be good for business) . . . they probably all think that you took your DD out of the centre. I think Elyse's idea of calling some of the other parents might not be a bad one.

There should have been an incident report or accident report written up about it by the child care centre. I am not too sure that this would have any more info in it than what they have told you but it might be good to try and get your hands on a written copy of the incident from their perspective. If DOCS is investigating, they have probably already requested this though.