I understand how you feel. It is even harder in person. I have one friend who after sleep school lets her baby cry to sleep and it is more than just a wind down cry. It is so horrible to hear, I tend to keep my mouth shut though, as I don't like it when I get hammered for co-sleeping. Anyway DH isn't so diplomatic and cracked at the DH of this friend (they are friends themselves).

Anyway, I tend to keep quiet myself, unless of course they choose to post in the gentle section.