Eeep Didn't mean for it to sound like I want to push my views.. I know too well what its like to be on the receiving end of it. I guess I have an emotional response and I just wanna throw every article I've ever read at them! LOL. But I never would. I totally respect that people make their decisions out of love for their babies and the rest of the family too. It's just the way I feel I guess when I see it or hear it.

I read somewhere that a baby's cry is designed to invoke a physical response from their carer.. unfortunately now.. any baby's cry invokes a response in me. It's awful.. if I hear a baby crying in the shopping centre I just want to run and help! I don't necessarily think anything bad of the parents.. it just affects me. So even when I THINK of babies being left to cry, my tummy does a flip.

Anyway.. sorry if I sounded like I want to push my views on people

btw Tracey - Tallon's the same, half whines and half talks to himself and falls back to sleep. I lie there awake wondering if its safe to go back to sleep. hehe.

As for not reading the threads.. yeah I guess.. but I can't help myself! hehe.