Gosh.. I'm stewing over this now My original post really was just a vent, and I posted it here in the gentle forum because i DIDN'T want it seen as pushing my point of view.

I think I just feel frustrated when I can't find the words to make a reply in such a way that it's supportive and possibly informative at the same time, because if it's me talking about what I've read in various articles, it would be seen as me pushing my point of view, yet if those articles themselves were posted, it's not taken that way. Does that make sense? That's why I said I find it hard to respond.

Poor misunderstood little me. LOL. I shall crawl back under my rock now and not vent any more for fear of having to explain myself!