Perhaps just realize that everyone has an opinion and if you can't say something nice, don't bother responding to those posts at all. There is never going to be two people who agree about all the same issues when it comes to parenting. Just know, people who use cc are not any less educated or loving and it may often work wonders for the health and happiness of their babies, and their family. That is not to say that it is right for you...but if the idea upsets you, then just don't read the posts.