Lilias... wot tellytubby said . I posted on & off in here a few times... and unsubscribed too but now I'm back and finally getting there. Just think of it as one "wagon fall-off" that's now out of the way . It's hard when you both need to lose. My DH needs to lose about 13kg (according to him, I reckon 15kg ), but he's found it so hard to get started. Thing is we know we both do better when we're both trying... and also it's sooo tempting to enable each other's bad habits. And once you're tired as well... aaah so much harder. Hang in there, keep posting. Tomorrow is another day and best of all YOU'RE STILL HERE!