I don't see any positives out of the relationship atm.

I have stopped unpacking their stuff from when they go 4wd, but it doesn't make any difference. There is a esky with an iceblock and some towels or something in there just inside the front door that you have to step around to get past. Its been there for over a month, and he complains when he doesn't have any frozen iceblocks to take away with him in another esky/cold bag. This esky has plastic shopping bags sitting on top of it, which I have asked him numerous times to move, but they are still there. I am going to move them right now before Ryan chokes on them. There is another cold bag in the kitchen that Steph and Ryan were playing in/on last night and he said 'oh daddy should have moved that' and instead of putting everything in it away, he just pushes it to the sliding door next to where it should have been packed away too.

I gave up trying to clean up outside where the kids could play, as it is stacked with car parts. I can't even park my pram there. It either has to go outside the gate (a no-can-do here) or stay in my car, or if it is squeezed in, then you have to battle to get past it.