Ok sorry for hijacking.
But.... How does that work, I can understand the thinking positive and concentrating on those positive things, this is something that I have been tying to do (but not getting very far some days) but when it comes to grudges, I don't know how to stop, I feel physically sick thinking of MIL. I can't help it I hate her actions, and it's going to sound horribly mean I hate who she is as a person for everything she did and didn't too.


Love MN ;-)