Rouge - Thanks for your suggestion, it was probably a bit OTT to use that phrase wasn't it

Inanna - In a perfect world, I'm hoping that by sending her this email, she will actually assist in sorting out the problem that has been created. I don't even care if she pleads ignorance about the whole thing, but it's going to be almost impossible to sort it out if she just ignores it.

I would love acknowledgement, maybe even an apology, but as you say, I highly doubt this would happen

You're right about that sentence, if she has been hurt by something I don't have the right to say she shouldn't be hurt, because its her own view.

As always, thanks for your gentle 'stretching'