Just when it's said that PA isn't obvious.. and things like that have been listed among PA behaviour. I'm too lazy to go back and find the posts Of course I'm going to look at my life examples, because mine & DH's behaviour was listed and I would hate to think people are assuming that we're being nasty or controlling with that behaviour. Tis all And it led me then to further think about how general thoughtless or disorganised behaviour could be taken as PA and how I didn't think that would be fair.

I'm sorry if I'm starting to sound argumentative. I feel like I'm trying to explain myself so much that I'm starting to sound like I don't agree with anything LOL. When I do totally agree with the horridness of PA behaviour.

Anyway, I think I've said what I wanted to say.. if it doesn't make sense then I shall remain misunderstood.. I don't mind LOL.