Thanks everyone. Think I'll persevere in persuading DH LOL.

I'm pretty sure I don't really want 4 or 5 kids LOL - so I think we'll be safe to say 3 is enough. Lets just hope the urge lessens. I'm just not ready yet to give up the breastfeeding and learning to walk & talk stages for helping with homework just yet! hehehe.

Bath - that's a good point about the baby stuff lasting through the 3 kids. I'd probably feel the same. Right now, all the stuff is still good, we have clothes for either another boy or girl, we have a big enough car to accomodate 3 kids, even just yesterday got a luggage box for the car LOL.. so we can definitely fit all the gear if need be! I just feel like.. why not?? DH asks how I'll cope coz I'm so worn out some days, but I just can't explain it well enough to him that yes, it's tiring looking after kids, but I love em to bits, so it's just all part of it for me. It never makes me wish we didn't have kids.. even if I do have a bad day and feel exhausted. See - can't even explain it now hehe.

Edit: lilias - yeah, DD's newborn stage wasn't easy, and I think that's been a big turnoff for DH. But it seems like she's suddenly 1 and almost walking and learning to talk and doing all those cute things.. and I'm saying to him 'see how quickly they grow out of that real baby stage? This year has gone soooo quick!'. Altho DS is now being a terrible 2yo LOL - so not sure DH will cope with that 3 times over! LOL.