My MG sounds alot like yours.

Is a really difficult one - I tend to assume because I am the sort of person that researches everything that other people have done that too and therefore are making an informed choice - but often that isn't the case but issue is you just don't know. And it is sad because it seems with motherhood you can't often discuss things like you would other aspects of life because people feel judged so much. I also think that sometimes you behave differently with other people around - e.g. maybe the mum would normally go in there and sit with him etc but felt needed to be out chatting with you guys.

If you can find something with a balanced view, I think the I have been reading this, or sending link to articles on internet - not directly to anyone person but just for general info is a good idea. In my MG people often send links to interesting stuff around and then is up to people if they want to take on board or not. I was reminded the other day about how I told someone about BLS and they had never heard of it before and now her son is like a poster boy for BLS.