I hope it's the way you see it, Schmickers, and not a way to punish a planned homebirth.
Still got wriggly girl on me, can't type properly.
The loss of your babe is just so profound. I have tried to fathom this before and it breaks me. You are made of strong stuff and that can seem to let others off the hook, instead of making the effort to acknowledge your loss. Others just wouldn't know what to say and would rather talk about car tyres.
You did a beautiful job with bringing them into the world and Ariyen will always feel Elliana