I'm 18, DP is 20, and our daughter was a . . . surprise lol. People do judge, but unfortunately, there's nothing you can do. I didn't have the experience of friends ditching me because of my pregnancy, but I did lose a lot because all of a sudden, I couldn't go out and get drunk or whatever and wasn't very fun to be around anymore. I don't know, to be honest, you don't even seem that young to me! But perhaps thats because I was 17 when I became pregnant.