My Fiance and I didn't plan our bubba (for another 3 yrs), but we weren't really preventing it either. I had the morning after pill....guess he was determined.
It was a shock at first but now we both couldn't be happier!
When Joel told the guys at work (all young army boys) one of his "mates" said "Your and idiot, what were you thinking??? Your too young" Joel just glared at him and I think he got the picture.
I just think that it is disgusting that people feel that they can make a comment about another persons life like that. Just because it's something that they don't want!!!Their beliefs should never come into it.
Don't worry about what people say. You are in a loving relationship with your partner and have bought a little piece of the both of you into this world to love, nurture and cherish. That is all that matters!!!